Thanks so much to all of you who showed me so kindly that you care!
A brief update: David and I were indeed married for "Time and All Eternity", as is our belief, on March 19, 2004. We left the next day for our long and leisurely honeymoon ... almost four weeks!
We first took a private room on a train 3,000 miles across the nation. We spent a week in Ohio and Michigan so David's family and friends could get to know me a little bit. Then we took his already packed van and drove home here to Oregon .. another 3,000 miles.
We saw so many GORgeous sights we were profoundly touched by how much love our Heavenly Father has for us to give us such a glorious land to live in! He could have stuck us all on a barren planet, but he chose to give us magnificent varieties of flora and fauna beyond words to describe.
David has undergone his really serious surgery. They had to remove 2 tumors instead of 1, with one of them on its way to becoming cancer. Then from the other side of his colon they had to remove diverticuli that were almost ready to burst! His mother died from this due to bleeding to death.
It was very extensive. He was in hospital for 8 days and will not be able to do anything strenuous for at least 6 months. He still has pain spasms that are horrendous.
His prescriptions alone come to over $400.00 per month and we have no insurance due to serious pre-existing health conditions. But, we found a way to defer 25% to 80% of all our med's costs. If anyone else wants to know how to do that, (only available in the states) just let me know.
We're doing pretty well. Instead of a regular garden this year we're growing our flowers and vegies in pots, pots, and MORE pots! I told my church leader we had a pot garden and he told me, "Uhhhh I think we need to have a talk!" I quickly explained what I'd meant. LOL
It's difficult for me to be much of a mod in here right now. I regret to say I don't know if I ever will be able to do much in the furture either as we've begun a home business that is keeping us extrememly busy.
Thanks for all your prayers and caring.
Hugs,
Dolly
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